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Written by and for someone searching thought the digital darkness of the dating web, looking for a spark that can become a flame, and a flame that can become a fire that will last a lifetime. Purpose: There is a lot of my personal history, personality, philosophy and musical tastes incorporated into these posts. It is intended to be polarizing - you either are drawn into my funny little world or do a 180 and warp drive to another galaxy far far away.

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- December 31, 2020

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