Pornography - the solution to addiction is connection

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The opposite of addiction is connection.

The root of the pornography consumption is a lack of connection to and with people who love us.   Love is a connection powerful enough to break addictions to any behavior or substance.

Loving oneself is not enough.  If it were, what would be the problem with someone saying "I love my self by pleasuring myself with this addiction."   Addictions are manipulative, intimidating and eventually dominating.   We are manipulated into them by the attractiveness of the feelings within us that they engender.   But then we are intimidated by shame to stay with the addiction even while it breaks our connections to other people and healthier activities.   Finally the addiction dominates every facet of our lives and relationships and we become the addict that manipulates, intimidates and desires to dominate others.

Pornography and pornography addiction are the gateway to all sorts of behaviors found within the context of sex addiction.

Sex addiction is treatable with XXLOVE

All of your 12 Step Programs for addiction speak of a "higher power".  For those who lack a 'God Concept'  the question put to them is, "Can you work on thinking about what a loving God would be like among and toward an individual and a group of people, made up of individuals with both similar and conflicting values, interests, experiences and abilities"



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