Want me - don't need me

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I'm noticing a lot of women in their late 40's and 50's stressing their financial independence.   And, they will mention that men are put off by it because they want to "control" their woman.

Hmm.  Then get a Geisha?   I look at the woman's profile and wonder why?  If she's capable of all that, why would I want to come in, take over and get in the way of what I find so attractive...and that developed without my input.    I've got a very capable daughter who has developed that way with my input.  She needed me.  And she wants me.

At the risk of being offensive...I'm a gambler when it comes to humor, I am going to let a friends TOM out of the bag.  He claims TOM has given him a very successful 4th marriage.

T is for TIME.  When the woman wants or needs your time, you stop what you are doing and give her the time.  When she is busy or not interested, you stay out of her way.  Go take care of your own business and be ready when she wants your time.

O is for ORGASM.  Always ensure that your mare comes in as WINNER, SHOW & PLACE. Whatever you have to do to ensure that do that man up and git er dun. Life is never better than with a woman that want's you and can win, show and place.  And don't ever play a lawn jockey and intimate like "she needs" you for that.  Want yes.  Need no.

M is for MONEY:  Don't Mess with her Money.  If you are fortunate enough to have a woman with financial independence, then you keep word of that quiet. If she reveals it to your deadbeat nephew who hits her up for bail money, then that is on her.  But keep quiet and be glad she's never going to run you into debt like a lot of the women out there who "NEED you but don't really want YOU.   Women complain about men being in debt, even while they are wearing a the ring, driving the car and living in the house that he financed.

If you have a good woman who needs your money or financial stability, then deal with that.  Just keep in mind that if there is a conflict with M, it can certainly affect T and O, which is why a woman that can take care of her own M, is really an asset and you can rest assured that she is WANTING you, rather than just NEEDING you for T and O.



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